Here are a few tips for brand new soccer coaches:
Coaching youth soccer can be a challenging experience, particularly when it comes to managing the behavior of parents. Here are some strategies that coaches can use to help control parents and create a positive atmosphere for all coaches and players:
1. Communicate clearly and consistently
Before the season starts, set clear expectations for parent behavior and communicate them clearly to all parents. This might include guidelines for sideline behavior, such as no yelling at players or referees, as well as expectations for how parents should communicate with the coach and team. Consistently enforcing these expectations will help create a sense of accountability among parents.
2. Encourage positive support
Rather than focusing solely on negative behaviors to avoid, coaches can also encourage parents to provide positive support for their child and the team. For example, encourage parents to cheer for all players, regardless of the score, and to celebrate the team’s successes rather than focusing on individual performances.
3. Lead by example
As a coach, your own behavior can have a big impact on the behavior of parents on the sideline. Showing respect for the players, referees, and other coaches, and maintaining a positive attitude, can help set a tone of sportsmanship and respect among parents as well.
4. Foster a sense of community
Building a strong sense of community among parents, players, and coaches can help to create a more positive atmosphere. Encourage parents to get to know each other and to support each other’s children, whether or not they are on the field.
5. Keep parents informed
Keeping parents informed about what’s happening with the team and what’s expected of them can help reduce frustration and confusion. Share your plans, expectations and progress with them.
6. Consider a parent representative
Appointing a parent representative for your team can be an effective way to manage parent behavior. This individual can act as a liaison between the coach and the parents, and can help to address any issues that arise.
7. Address issues quickly
If a parent is behaving in an unacceptable manner, address the issue as soon as possible. Speak to the parent privately and explain why their behavior is problematic, and work with them to find a solution.
8. Keep focus on players
Remember the main reason you all are there, it’s to give an opportunity for children to learn and play the game. Keep the focus on the kids, and on providing them with a positive and enjoyable experience.
By following these strategies, coaches can help to create a positive and supportive environment for all players, and make the youth soccer experience much more enjoyable for everyone involved.
